Comments on: Dealing with Insecurities (Fragmented Fridays) https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/ Funny San Francisco Latina Blogger Fri, 30 Nov 2012 05:19:39 +0000 hourly 1 By: caj diaz https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23728 Mon, 24 Sep 2012 10:06:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23728 There’s nothing a good cup of coffee can’t fix – including insecurity. 

]]> By: ::xishell:: https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23620 Wed, 19 Sep 2012 01:01:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23620 As I get older, that’s one thing I’m starting to understand:  No one else thinks of me nearly as much as I think about my faults… At least I hope not.  We all have our weak spots.  I like the quote someone gave you below.  Good point. 

]]> By: tracismixedbag https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23610 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 04:54:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23610 I can be very insecure and hard on myself, thinking that people think the worst about me, but I try to give people the benefit of the doubt, if only because I need that myself. If someone becomes an icky repeat offender, then I may cut them off (if not physically, emotionally) I rarely get to that place because I’m becoming better at choosing friends.

]]> By: mswanda https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23586 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 20:06:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23586 Oooh Love this post:)  Insecurity, yikes!  I’ve been insecure my entire life, I’m a little better now that my older however, that nasty little feeling still hovers over me.  I think I read into what people are really saying and sometimes I drive myself crazy.  It usually passes in about 24 hours and then I move on!

]]> By: unknownmami https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23572 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 19:21:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23572 In reply to Angelia Sims.

I can’t imagine you being insecure about your photography. I want to be as good as you. I look at your pictures and think, Ugh, will I ever be that good?

]]> By: Angelia Sims https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23570 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 18:47:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23570 I am having the hardest time with my photography insecurities. I want to just give up on the whole thing, then I get insecure about that. Because really? Do I want to be a quitter? Then again, what if I do? Why should I care what other people think…if I’m okay being a quitter….right?
I get it. I do.
Love these quotes.
You are amazing. I can’t imagine you being insecure about anything.

]]> By: unknownmami https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23569 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 18:09:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23569 In reply to Andrea B.

I went from feeling insecure one day to on top of the world the next. It ebbs and flows.

]]> By: My Inner Chick https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23568 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 17:50:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23568 I love Debra Winger.  Lets get that strait first.

Insecurity?  Sometimes I drown inside of it. 

On the other hand,  sometimes I feel as if I can RULE the World!

Xxxx

]]> By: Cyndy DysFUNctional Mom https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23567 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 16:48:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23567 My first thought was that I had offended you with one of my comments.  Because that is my insecurity!  And I have a bad habit of thinking people are referring to me when talking about something when probably 99% of the time they are NOT!

]]> By: brian miller https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23566 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 16:25:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23566 def have to confront it head on….i ask the questions to make sure i understand so i dont have to harbor the angst…..

]]> By: Andrea B https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23565 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 12:45:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23565 I feel you, Mami. I truly do. Sometimes it’s the smallest thing that sets me off, but more often than not it’s really me – myself – that makes me feel that way. It stinks when it happens but I battle through, and I know you will do so, too! 

]]> By: Vidya Sury https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23564 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 06:01:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23564 Feeling insecure from time to time is quite normal, I am told. Thank God. I generally get that way when I have too much to do and know for sure I won’t finish everything in the time frame I allot myself, quite unrealistically.

Gosh, I hope I am not the creep who said something – I would never ever intend something like that. 

Yes, I am obsessed with you – in a very very nice way 😀 as in worrying if you don’t post and feeling thrilled when you do. Hugs and love – and don’t forget to take care of yourself. Vidya

]]> By: unknownmami https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23563 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 03:45:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23563 In reply to Kimberly.

No, I did not know her brother was your boss.

]]> By: Kimberly https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23562 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 03:41:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23562 I like that quote from Debra Winger.  Do you know, her brother is my boss!  I’m sure you didn’t know that, but whenever I see something about her I remember her brother is the head honcho of my school district. 🙂
I completely agree with insecurities, they are so internal most of the time.  Hang in there!

]]> By: unknownmami https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23561 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 02:42:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23561 In reply to Eva Gallant.

Nice!

]]> By: Eva Gallant https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23560 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 02:11:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23560 At my age, I no longer give a shit what others think which eliminates the need for insecurity.

]]> By: unknownmami https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23559 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 02:09:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23559 In reply to Keetha.

I think the world of you too.

]]> By: Keetha https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23558 Sat, 15 Sep 2012 02:01:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23558 It’s the old “button pushing” syndrome.  We all have buttons and when those buttons get pushed our insecurities well up and overwhelm us.

I just hope I was not a button pusher for you, and if I was let me say here and now that I’m sorry ’cause I think the world of you!

]]> By: Emmy https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23553 Fri, 14 Sep 2012 21:37:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23553 I think as a whole most people are way too insecure and worried about what others do and think. In reality most are so busy worrying if they are doing or saying the right thing that they don’t even notice when others may mess up. So yes- just love yourself and realize what an awesome woman you are!

]]> By: AutismWonderland https://byclaudya.com/dealing-with-insecurities-fragmented-fridays/#comment-23554 Fri, 14 Sep 2012 21:37:00 +0000 http://byclaudya.com/?p=8523#comment-23554 Great post! I hate my moments of insecurity…and they happen often. I am working on trying to focus on the positive.  

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