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August 10, 2012 Claudya Martinez

Hope Instead of Worry (Fragmented Fridays)

Fell asleep peacefully last night, only to wake up in the middle of the night with a racing heart worrying about things I can do nothing about during the middle of the night. Reminded myself that there was nothing I could do at that very moment, focused on the comfort of my bed, the sweet baby sleeping next to me, and went back to sleep.

Woke up this morning with a tightness in my chest from the worry I had set aside for a later time. Worry and fear, what’s the difference?

I am reminding myself of what I know…

 

I’ve shared that worrying is praying for what you don’t want before. I know this and still sometimes I find myself praying for what I don’t want.

But today, I’ll remind myself to focus on what I do want.

  • I want a healthy, happy family.
  • A roof over our heads.
  • Food on the table.
  • The means and desire to provide for my family.
  • Money to pay our bills and then some.
  • A great bilingual preschool for Put Pie.
  • An Ipad. (Why not?)
  • A fabulous family trip.
  • A pedicure.
  • I am open to abundance.
  • I am open to opportunities.

Crazy, just writing about and focusing on good things made me feel better.

Why-Worry-Quote

 Wishing you and me a very happy weekend!

And now your Friday Fortune Cookie
(don’t forget to add “in bed” at the end, if you are so inclined):


There is always room for hope.


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  1. blanklisleman says

    August 10, 2012 at 9:57 am

    Good correct thinking. It would be nice if simply thinking the correct way would always produce the correct action as we faced the future. Just IMHO – the I-pad should drop a notch down in your list. Family travel – much better.

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    • blankunknownmami says

      August 10, 2012 at 10:48 am

      Oh yeah, items on list not in order of preference.

      Reply
  2. blankMrs4444 says

    August 10, 2012 at 1:44 pm

    Wow–I went to vote for you, Tweet for you, pin your graphic, and then got lost on a very long tangent. Anyway, Good luck! btw, Milo is tRYIHg=[]- to type something…I think that means “Hi UM!!!”

    Reply
    • blankunknownmami says

      August 10, 2012 at 1:49 pm

      I need a snuggle with Milo!

      Reply
      • blankMrs4444 says

        August 10, 2012 at 1:57 pm

        You totally do; he’s the best snuggler 🙂 He was absolutely mobbed at Camp Unahliya last night–So tired he’s barely moved today.haha

        Reply
  3. blankKeetha says

    August 10, 2012 at 2:56 pm

    I have found that even when I MANAGE to put worry down, I tend to pick it right back up.

    And instead of helping, worrying usually just makes everything worse.

    So – – – why is it sooooo hard to NOT WORRY!?!

    Reply
  4. blankLaurie Matherne says

    August 10, 2012 at 4:45 pm

    There is always hope… in bed? HA! I like that. A lot. As a spinster of uncertain years, I often live on hope, and hope alone.

    Reply
  5. blankVidya Sury says

    August 10, 2012 at 10:07 pm

    🙂 I’ve loved that poster from the moment I saw it. So true. Your list could be my list, only longer 😀 Hoping is always good – when we wish, we attract. 😀 Happy weekend to you, too!

    Reply
  6. blankKathy says

    August 11, 2012 at 4:30 am

    I love how you turned your worries around….to hope! I have lot’s of worries too…need a better focus on hope instead …thanks! Happy weekend!

    Reply
  7. blankactingbalanced says

    August 11, 2012 at 11:36 am

    Great messasge! Hope you woke up in a happier frame of mind today!

    Reply
  8. blankEliana Tardio says

    August 11, 2012 at 1:43 pm

    beautiful! 🙂 is never too much to remind people to have hope instead of fear 🙂

    Reply
  9. blankBoom Boom Larew says

    August 11, 2012 at 8:14 pm

    Words of wisdom Mami… and I confess, I’m glad you threw the ipad in there for good measure!

    Reply
  10. blankdeborahpucci says

    August 19, 2012 at 3:38 pm

    Excellent post. Now if only I could put those inspirational words to work!

    Reply
    • blankunknownmami says

      August 19, 2012 at 3:55 pm

      I have to tell you, my eldest (almost 4) already struggles with worry and it breaks my heart. I mean she’s only 4! What does she have to worry about? She told me she worries about getting sick.

      Reply

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