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By Claudya

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May 12, 2011 Claudya Martinez

My Husband the Feminist Pt. 2

What is up with my husband? I swear he is going out of his way to make me fall in love with him all over again. Yesterday, I wrote about one of the reasons why he is perfect for me, it involved him deciding that trying to join the Masons was not for him. Well, today he sent me a copy of the thank you email he sent and I am so darned proud of him I asked for permission to print it.

Thank you so much for inviting me to the lodge. I had a nice time and everyone was kind and friendly. After my visit I gave the idea of joing some thought and decided it was not for me. The issue I have is that it is a fraternity. I knew this going in but didn’t realize the cost of this practice until I left. I just can’t be part of any organization that excludes anyone based on sex, race, sexual orientation, etc.

The Masons helped my family by fixing my brothers legs at Shriner’s Hospital and I will never forget that. The Masons do great work and I hope they can continue to do great work for another 400 years. And, maybe, just maybe, one day they will consider the openheartedness, courage, and brilliance a woman can contribute.

Sincereley,
Unknown Papi

I love him. Seriously, reading the last line of his email makes me cry. I married the man who wrote, “And, maybe, just maybe, one day they will consider the openheartedness, courage, and brilliance a woman can contribute.” Sigh…my husband the feminist.

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  1. Anonymous says

    May 12, 2011 at 8:05 pm

    Awwwww! Big YAY for Unknown Papi! 🙂

    Reply
  2. MommyLisa says

    May 12, 2011 at 8:49 pm

    That is really cool. Most people would have said nothing.

    Reply
  3. blankThebipolardiva says

    May 12, 2011 at 10:51 pm

    swoon….

    Reply
  4. blankClassic NYer says

    May 12, 2011 at 10:58 pm

    Okay, make that two gold stars. Five. Five gold stars.

    Reply
  5. blankAnonymous says

    May 12, 2011 at 10:59 pm

    ok, that is the sweetest thing EVER. You are one lucky lady

    Reply
  6. blankAnonymous says

    May 12, 2011 at 11:32 pm

    Yep! That man’s a keeper!
    🙂
    Traci

    Reply
  7. blanklisleman says

    May 12, 2011 at 11:44 pm

    just wondering – did you see this

    Blogger is currently unavailable
    I’m guessing it would still affect you since you use the platform – right? Did you post before it went down?

    —

    That is a great well written message. I would interested in their response.

    Reply
    • blankunknownmami says

      May 13, 2011 at 12:09 am

      Nope, I’m on WordPress.

      Reply
      • blanklisleman says

        May 13, 2011 at 2:10 pm

        You must be feeling good about switching off Blogger now.  It is still down (read only) if you didn’t notice.  The worst thing is they took it back in time so my last post is gone.
        So far the Blogger outage has not affected the DISQUS system so I’m glad I switched to that.  Maybe I should start sharing Friday Fragments over here.

        Reply
      • blanklisleman says

        May 13, 2011 at 2:10 pm

        You must be feeling good about switching off Blogger now.  It is still down (read only) if you didn’t notice.  The worst thing is they took it back in time so my last post is gone.
        So far the Blogger outage has not affected the DISQUS system so I’m glad I switched to that.  Maybe I should start sharing Friday Fragments over here.

        Reply
  8. blankAnonymous says

    May 13, 2011 at 12:38 am

    He is one special man. I love that he wrote the letter.

    Reply
  9. blankGrace Hodgin says

    May 12, 2011 at 8:00 pm

    What a wonderful letter and it is written with such heart that maybe, just maybe it will stick in their heart as well.

    grace@blessedelements.com/goinggreen

    Reply
  10. blankblancastella says

    May 13, 2011 at 3:04 am

     Wow.. true prince! You’re a lucky woman. He should train more men. Then this world will get fixed in a flash.

    Reply
  11. blankAnonymous says

    May 13, 2011 at 6:40 am

    He’s amazing. He could have just said no thanks, but he went ahead an told them why and stood up for his beliefs. 

    Reply
  12. blankGran says

    May 13, 2011 at 1:34 am

     Good for Papi. A beautiful letter!

    Reply
  13. blankAnonymous says

    May 13, 2011 at 10:46 am

     Wow he is a one of a kind!! 

    Reply
  14. blankAnonymous says

    May 13, 2011 at 11:57 am

     What a guy!  That’s a keeper you got there Mami. 🙂

    Reply
  15. blankAna Flores says

    May 13, 2011 at 6:35 am

    And I’m going to cry with you! So powerful!

    Reply
  16. blankrebecca says

    May 13, 2011 at 4:50 pm

    If you guys ever become Mormon, I’d like to marry him too.  Is that okay with you?  If you become Mormon?

    Reply
    • blankunknownmami says

      May 13, 2011 at 5:28 pm

      I’m sure he’d be fine with it.

      Reply
  17. blankMrs4444 says

    May 14, 2011 at 2:57 am

     What a gem 🙂

    Reply
  18. blankMyya says

    May 14, 2011 at 11:21 pm

     What a guy! Seriously, that was pretty damn cool!!!

    Reply
  19. blankElleberra says

    May 15, 2011 at 1:42 am

    Congratulations! Nice husband you have. Following now. 

    Reply
  20. blankAnonymous says

    May 15, 2011 at 12:37 pm

    That’s a nice letter. UP might also consider the Order of the Eastern Star (it’s a group that both men and women can join). Though I will say this, I don’t really have a problem with male/female exclusive groups. There are reasons to have single-sex organizations for brother or sisterhood (and to stave off the possibility of romantic issues that would cloud the purpose of the group). 

    I admire that your husband stands up for his beliefs. Too many of us don’t. 🙂

    Reply
  21. blankSujeiry, 1st Lady of Love says

    May 18, 2011 at 6:58 pm

    This is really sweet! Kudos to Unknown Papi!

    Reply

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